I said that if I ever had a classic rant I would blog it again. Well I had one. It's about ending up in the friend zone and about people who claim that their ex is their best friend. Without further ado:
I don't trust chicks who claim their ex is their best friend. Something about that just doesn't sit well with me
If the chick claims her ex is her best friend, I automatically imply 2 things: 1) She doesn't have any female friends, & 2) Her ex has residual income pussy on deck
There's no reason your ex should be picking you up from the airport
Fellas: If you offer to pick a chick up from the airport and she declines or says "I already have a ride", she doesn't want your dick
@AlluringShrew raised a point that it could be the case for anyone. That it doesn't mean something is awry when exes are friends
If that person is your ex that means you were in a relationship with them at some point. And if you were, you thought you had a future
Very few relationships have two people that don't think there is a future between them. Only sex. It happens, but its rare.
If you view this person as your best friend, you probably still wish that future was there. And secretly, probably wish yall were together
If a female has decided she wants to be with you, her vagina will always get wet for you. Always. Can't argue with nature.
Why do you think females stick around in abusive relationships? Just like dude's dick clouds their thoughts, women's vagina does the same
If she views her ex as her best friend, it's like telling that dude "My vagina will always be here, ready when you are"
He may not act upon it immediately, but trust the he knows the option exists in the back of his head
That's how you get in situations where she tries explaining it to you like "Yeah he spent the night, but we're like good friends now"
That nigga just put it through her back and she came back to you because he doesn't want a relationship. The minute he does, yall are a wrap
You can date a chick who claims her ex is her best friend only if you're comfortable with sharing the pussy. If not, go elsewhere.
Some dudes are comfortable with sharing the pussy. I'm not one of them.
RT @ShowinOut Most females stick around because theyre scared, have low self esteem, theyre comfortable, or have kids. Not just for sex
I'll take it one step further. Men can't be best friends with a female, unless he has zero intentions of fucking her
If either of you have contemplated what sex would be like between you, yall aren't best friends. Just lovers on hold.
You're on some permanent friend zone shit but you stick around hoping things will change.
The only way the situation will change in the dude's favor is if the female comes in contact with her own mortality.
If the female endures a horrible relationship, or has a kid, or some other live changing event, then she might say "He's been good to me"
After someone else wiped his ass with her heart, then she might give you a whiff of the pussy. Might.
Even if you get that whiff, you still will have that Friend Zone Scarlet Letter on you. Let a free agent land in the area, back to the bench
The Friend Zone is like spending your prime years as an athlete on a team that always loses in the first round of the playoffs
You're better off than other dude's who don't even know her, but then again, you're not getting a ring anytime soon
Would you rather spend your prime years putting up numbers on a horrible team or being a 8th seed & get swept every year?
That's a question you have to ask yourself. Do I want to stick around on this squad, or do I want to try my luck elsewhere?
Kevin Garnett on the Minnesota Timberwolves was the epitome of the Friend Zone athlete
He was a guaranteed Hall of Famer but was stuck in no-mans land. He needed a change of scenery before he finally got over the hump
That's what some of yall niggas need that's in the friend zone now. A change of scenery.
Sure, I bet it feels good to win 41 games a year, but why not try your luck somewhere else and try to win 50 games? or 60?
And I'm done ranting. The friend zone is no joke. But its something every man experiences in life. Just gotta stay strong.
Getting in the friend zone can be demoralizing. Especially if you're in the friend zone with a known ho. But that’s neither here nor there.
? RT @AlluringShrew girls get stuck in the "friend zone" sometimes too. And it sucks equally bad for us when that happens, trust me.
@AlluringShrew The only time a female is in the friend zone is if she's not attractive whatsoever
@AlluringShrew There are no other circumstances. If he has a chick in the friend zone he doesn't find her attractive
@AlluringShrew Men don't turn down pussy. If he turned down the pussy there has to be a reason
@NahImSerious Exactly. We can be friends if I never wanna see what that mouf do
I apologize for all the people in the friend zone that I'm crushing your dreams.
I'll stop with my rant now.